Friday, April 19, 2013
Updating Your Attitude App
In the same way, we climbers will need our attitudes updated from time to time if we're going to continue overcoming and making it up our personal mountain. Why? Because life, hard climbing, and challenges take their toll on our attitudes. They can slowly cause our inner person to deteriorate without us even noticing.
For example, we can become complacent and just not want to try as hard. Or we get discouraged and simply want to quit. Or we're thinking so far ahead about all we may face that we have little energy left to deal with what we are facing right now. We can forget to be thankful because we're overwhelmed by the hardships we encounter every day and substitute anger or bitterness instead.
We can become bitter because the climb seems to never end.
So how do we update our apps . . . I mean attitudes? First, we need to get around more positive people. No, not mere blue sky painters but people who will help us regain our perspective and see our blind spots.
Second, we need to regularly take inventory of how we are blessed. Start thanking God for everyday things that you still have even though you're facing a major challenge right now.
Third, go serve someone else. If you're a cancer patient go sit or ride with someone else going through cancer treatments too. Get you eyes off of you and onto them for awhile.
Or, talk to someone about it, a counselor, pastor, friend or mentor. Let them shed some light on where you are and how you might change your thinking in other ways.
I don't know about you, but the apps on my phone are changing all the time. It's normal and OK. So don't be afraid to do regular updates on your attitudes. They usually affect everything.