Friday, January 24, 2014
The Black Holes That Tend to Defeat Us
Unfortunately, there are lots of everyday black holes in life that particularly hinder those of us who are climbing, climbing our own personal mountains, trying to overcome big-time challenges and the like.
Let me suggest a few as a warning and to perhaps help you separate yourself from one or more that are holding you back.
There is the black hole of your past. The things that were said about you, the disappointments you had, the goals you never reached or the failures you experienced. They have a way of sucking the life out of us so that we never try anything, stay stuck in a dead end job or continually just dull our pain.
There is the black hole of denial. There are things you need to face, deal with, change and admit but you keep looking the other way never wanting to face your own culpability, weaknesses and flaws.
There is the black hole of blame. In your denial, you spend much of your time blaming other people. If only they hadn't acted or spoken a certain way your life would be so much different. And maybe that's true but your continued blame of them has you paralyzed. There are things you could do, make better and change about your thinking but your focus on others keeps you stuck.
There is the black hold of comfort. Changing, improving, overcoming and getting to the summit all require work and you're pretty comfortable where you are. You're like the people who stop at the chalet going up the mountain to have some hot chocolate and rest. The problem is they like it there so much they quit climbing and never go any further.
Do you see the problem with black holes? They are the kind of thing that keep sucking life, energy, hope and peace out of us. Maybe you have different ones than those I've described. Face them and then destroy them. They have no right to run your life or stop your progress. Ask God to give you insight, wisdom and strength to keep going.
The black holes in space are probably there to stay but yours can be gone if you'll just demand it.